Tag Archive for: personal empowerment

the discovery paradox

The Discovery Paradox – why seeing yourself changes everything

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I see clients "changing" completely as they become more and more self-aware. As they begin to understand who they are underneath all the conditioning, recognising their patterns and getting an idea of their ''why", they start thinking, behaving and even looking different.This got me thinking, when we become self-aware, do we call that change or reality? Nothing fundamental about us has shifted, or has it?What aspect of yourself are you still trying to change instead of understand?
exhausted and burnt out always fine

The quiet violence of being the one who’s always fine

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There's a strange loneliness that comes with being the person everyone leans on. It's the loneliness of not being seen past your capability to who you actually are.The quiet violence of always being fine is that it makes you invisible to yourself. But the quiet revolution is remembering that you exist too. That you matter too. That your needs are valid and your feelings are real and your well-being is worth protecting.You've spent so long being the person everyone can count on. Now it's time to be someone you can count on too.