Tag Archive for: defensiveness

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Emotional Triggers – Who’s responsible

We don’t trigger people. People get triggered. Being triggered explains a reaction; it doesn’t excuse it. You don’t get to scream at someone making harmless conversation and then walk away feeling righteous because your nervous system lit up. The trigger is yours. The reaction is yours. And the repair is yours.
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How Defensiveness Destroys Relationships

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Defensiveness can quietly destroy even the strongest relationships. It turns small misunderstandings into emotional threats and pushes partners apart long before either person realises what’s happening.This piece explores why defensiveness shows up, how it becomes a repeating relationship pattern, and why love alone can’t fix it—unless the person caught in the cycle is willing to look inward.