1:1 UNSCRIPT Mentoring for Life Transitions
3-6 months of deep individual work to completely transform how you navigate career and life transitions
Private, intensive transformation work
This is for when surface changes won’t cut it and you need sustained, individualised support to completely reconstruct how you move through the world.
You’re facing a transition – identity, relationships, how you make decisions, what you value, who you’re becoming. You’ve tried the quick fixes. You know this requires deep structural work over time, not a weekend breakthrough.
1:1 Career Mentoring is 3-6 months of working through the full UNSCRIPT™ Method at your pace, tailored entirely to your patterns, your life, and your specific circumstances.
For people who are ready to invest in irreversible change, not just feeling better temporarily.
This mentoring is for you if:
- You’re navigating a complex transition or identity shift that requires sustained support
- You prefer private, intensive work over group settings
- You’re ready to invest 3-6 months in complete reconstruction of how you make decisions and move through the world
- You’re serious about making irreversible changes, not just managing symptoms
- You have the financial and time capacity to commit fully
- You’re willing to do uncomfortable work between sessions
This mentoring is NOT for you if:
- You’re looking for monthly check-ins about your feelings (this is structural transformation work)
- You want someone to tell you what to do (I’ll help you figure out what’s yours, not give you my blueprint)
- You’re not ready to commit to 3-6 months of focused work
- You prefer group accountability and recognition (consider the Intensive instead)
- You’re expecting quick fixes or surface-level changes
Two Mentoring Options
3-Month Intensive
For focused work on a specific career transition or life shift
What’s included:
- 12 weekly sessions (60 minutes each)
- Unlimited email support between sessions
- Customized resources and practices tailored to your patterns
- Emergency session if needed (one included)
- Complete UNSCRIPT™ workbook and materials
Best for:
- Clear, focused transitions (career change, major decision, specific life shift)
- When you know what needs to change but not how to do it
Investment: €1,296
6-Month Deep Dive
For complex, intersecting transitions requiring sustained support
What’s included:
- 24 weekly sessions (60 minutes each)
- Unlimited email and text support
- Quarterly intensive planning sessions (extended 2-hour sessions)
- Access to all group program recordings for additional perspective
- Priority booking for future programs
- Complete UNSCRIPT™ workbook and materials
- Emergency sessions as needed (two included)
Best for:
- Multiple intersecting changes (career + relationship + identity + life direction)
- Professionals with complex patterns requiring deeper excavation
- When you’re rebuilding from scratch, not just adjusting course
- If you want sustained accountability through a complete transformation
Investment: €2,448
How 1:1 Mentoring Works
The Process:
Phase 1: Foundation (Weeks 1-2)
We map your inherited scripts, identify core patterns, and establish what’s actually yours versus what was programmed. Deep diagnostic work to understand the architecture of your current life.
Phase 2: Dismantling (Weeks 3-8)
Active deconstruction of limiting patterns. This is where the hard work happens—confronting whose voice you’re hearing, permission to want what you want, breaking scripts before they run you.
Phase 3: Rebuilding (Weeks 9-12 for 3-month | Weeks 9-20 for 6-month)
Constructing new patterns from your actual values. Making decisions from the inside out. Rewiring how you show up in work, relationships, and life.
Phase 4: Integration (6-month only: Weeks 21-24)
Solidifying changes, embedding new patterns, preparing for sustained transformation without ongoing support.
Between Sessions:
- Custom practices tailored to your specific patterns
- Email/text support for real-time script-catching
- Integration exercises to embed the work
- Resources and frameworks specific to your situation
Application Process
1:1 Career Mentoring is by application only. This ensures we’re the right fit and that you’re ready for this level of work.
Step 1: Submit Application
Complete the application form with information about your current situation, what you’re navigating, and why you’re seeking mentoring now.
Step 2: Conversation
We’ll have a 30-minute conversation to assess fit. I’ll ask about your patterns, your readiness, and what you’re actually trying to transform. You’ll get to ask questions and determine if this feels right.
Step 3: Decision
Within 48 hours, you’ll receive a decision. If we move forward, you’ll choose your program length (3 or 6 months), complete payment or payment plan setup, and schedule your first session.
Not everyone is accepted. This work requires significant commitment from both sides. If I don’t think this is the right fit or timing, I’ll tell you directly and suggest alternatives.
Frequently Asked Questions
How is this different from the Breakthrough Session or Intensive?
The Breakthrough Session is a single deep-dive for immediate clarity. The Intensive is 6 weeks of structured group work. 1:1 Mentoring is 3-6 months of private, individualised transformation work tailored entirely to your specific patterns and life circumstances.
Can I switch from 3-month to 6-month if I need more time?
Yes, if there’s availability. After 8-10 weeks of the 3-month program, we can assess whether extending makes sense. The rate remains the same.
What if I need to pause or take a break?
Short breaks (1-2 weeks) are fine and sometimes necessary. Longer pauses disrupt momentum. If you need to pause for more than 2 weeks, we’ll discuss whether continuing makes sense or if we should end and you can reapply later.
Do you offer refunds?
After the first two sessions, no refunds. The first two sessions establish whether this is the right fit. If after session 2 you realise this isn’t working, we can discuss options. After that, you’re committed for the full term.
Can sessions be in person?
Sessions are conducted via Zoom. This allows for flexibility, ensures you have recordings, and doesn’t limit mentoring to geographic proximity.
What happens after 3 or 6 months?
Most clients don’t need ongoing support after completing the program—they have the frameworks to continue the work independently. Some choose occasional check-in sessions (available at alumni rates). A few extend for additional months if complex work remains.
How quickly will I see results?
This isn’t about “results” like a business program. It’s transformation. You’ll start seeing patterns more clearly within 2-3 weeks. Real shifts in how you make decisions and show up happen around weeks 6-8. Deep, irreversible change solidifies over months, not weeks.
What if we’re not a good fit?
I’ll tell you in the conversation. I don’t take clients I can’t help. If your needs don’t match my expertise, or if your timing isn’t right, I’ll be direct and suggest alternatives.
Do you work with people outside the Netherlands?
Yes. Sessions are via Zoom. I work with clients globally. Time zones are considered when scheduling.
Ready for deep, sustained transformation work?
This isn’t for everyone. It requires significant investment—financial, time, and emotional.
But if you’re navigating a complex midlife transition and you know surface changes won’t fix it, this is the work that creates irreversible change.
Not everyone is accepted. Apply and we’ll determine if this is the right fit and timing.
